DATE HACKS

The first date:
what to wear, where to go, what to
say, what to do and what not to do. All this pressure
to make a good first impression can be daunting.
After all, you know practically nothing about each
other and the whole point of a first date is to judge
(as much as we don't like to admit it) whether or
not we think we'd like to get to know each other
better. But first dates don't have to be elaborate or
fancy in order for you to secure that coveted
second or third date. There are some things you will
want to do and others you will want to avoid on a
first date to ensure its success and the possibility of
future dates as well.
When it comes to dating, it seems everyone thinks
they're the expert to turn to for advice. Whether it's
your friends or your lovable aunts who constantly
inquire about your love life, everyone has a dating
tip for you. But we all know what to do on a date,
don't we? Always have a smile, listen attentively,
be yourself, have fun, and the list goes on. So, if
everyone knows the tips for successful dating, then
why do we go through so much trouble and anxiety
about first dates? Maybe it's because there is no
set standard of rules anymore.
Once upon a time, chivalry was the norm.
Nowadays, some women get offended when the
door is held open or their seat is pulled out for them.
Consequently, many single people are at a loss
when it comes to knowing what to do and when to
do it. And while there may not be an ultimate list of
shoulds and should nots, there are still some
common dating tips that everyone can agree on.
It is important to be attentive to your date and this
includes listening to what they are saying (and
maybe throwing in a question or two) and
maintaining eye contact when in a conversation.
There is nothing worse than meeting your date and
not knowing what you're going to do. If you have
something planned ahead of time, it shows you put
some thought into it.
If you go out for dinner, why not split the bill? Sure,
you were invited out and your date is expected to
pay but offer anyway. And if your date picks up the
tab, offer to pay the next time. - By all means, call
your date if you say you're going to call! If you
didn't have a good time then be courteous, and
don't promise to get in touch when you really have
no intention of doing so.
Be polite; turn off your cell phone and stop the
wandering eyes. There is nothing ruder than taking
a casual call from a friend or ogling the waitress at
the next table while your date is attempting to hold
your attention.
While talking about past relationships almost
always comes up in conversation, don't start telling
your date every last detail; they are not your
therapist!
And believe me, chivalry is not dead; women do
appreciate it, just don't overdo it boys.
In this world of women's independence, many are
taking it upon themselves to ask the man out. And
why not?! It shows confidence and is a turn-on for
many men. Keep in mind though, confidence is
sexy, arrogance is a turn off.
Many people will have a different answer when you
ask them their opinion on whether or not a kiss is
acceptable on the first date. Maybe all you want to
do is hold hands or snuggle and save the kiss for
another date. It all depends on the chemistry
between you and whether or not it feels right. And if
it does, then go for it. Of course, if the date isn't
going well, feel free to end the date early with
everyone's favorite backup "emergency" phone call
from a friend. Chances are if you're not having a
good time, neither is your date!
Hopefully, this has broadened your outlook on the
world of "first dates". The whole point of a first date
is to figure out if you want to get to know the person
better. Remember, when it comes to dating and tips,
just follow your instinct and no matter the outcome,
have fun, enjoy yourself, and relax. well take a Risk today and Hook-up